Very interesting. I would like to read that book. And you’re right, I am generalizing from pathology. But those pathological, insecure men cause outsize harm to society.
I realize that there are many men who are secure in their masculinity. I know them and I love them.
Of course women in general are no better than men. They are also subject to human nature, which includes aggressiveness, selfishness, and insensitivity.