There is so much wisdom and truth here. I love the way you look so deeply at the problem of unbalanced masculinity. I have never seen it expressed this way.

I had many similar experiences to yours. I did not meet a man who could match me emotionaly until I was 50. It has been 10 wonderful years and I hope for many more.

It is worth searching for and insisting on if you are someone who needs a deep emotional relationship.

Cut loose the lukewarm losers as soon as you can.