Just breathtaking. What a deadbeat. When I think of what my husband sacrificed to make sure he could be an involved dad to his kids (basically putting his career on hold for ten years to stay in the same city with them and have joint custody), it infuriates me that this a**h*** gets to have 7 kids and then just does nothing for one of them. And no doubt the minimum for the rest. You are so right that he doesn’t know what a real gift is.