I love the Netherlands too. My stepson and family live there. When my grandchildren were born, they had doctors and nurses coming to their home for wellness visits. They get free daycare from age 9 months so their children can learn Dutch. Both parents can earn their living playing classical music.
It’s a more civilized way of life than we can find in North America.
I have the opposite problem from you-I wish I could move there to be with my grandchildren.