I hear you. It is so exhausting. I went through it for years before I met my husband. Everyone I met was either wrong for me or some kind operator, or someone who couldn't commit despite advertising that they were looking for a real relationship.

I was in my mid forties.

Fortunately for me, I am very stubborn and decided I wanted a relationship no matter what, and that there must be some good men out there.

I finally found him at age 50. We have been together for 10 years.

So yes, I made the time. And it was worth it for me. It may not be worth it for everybody. I get that.

Nevertheless, I hope you find your guy too!