I could not disagree more. It has not been my experience at all. Relationships die all of the time, but in my experience, it's because both people are together for the wrong reasons, have poor relationship skills, or are just not relationship people. Evolving together is also important. I think this kind of pessimistic attitude could potentially lead giving up on a relationship. Or accepting behaviour that shouldn't be accepted.

I would not presume to judge your personal relationship, because only the two people involved understand the true complexity of what they are living.

I just disagree with this philosophy.

I hope you enjoy your new home and that moving leads to all kinds of new opportunities.