Devastating. He is still inflicting pain on you from afar. The courts need to grant you your divorce. If he chooses to kill himself, that’s his own affair. Hopefully no one will help him in this by supplying him with alcohol or other drugs. Maybe with the toxic influence of his mother gone, he can begin digging himself out of the grave he’s been digging for himself. But that’s not your problem. I wish you peace from all of this pain.